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Soft life: How to Enter Your Soft Girl Era

 Soft Life: How to Enter Your Soft Girl Era



The “Soft Life” or “Soft Girl Era” has been one of the numerous Tiktok Trends that has had us in a chokehold

And I’m living for it

So What is the Soft life? And who is a Soft Girl?

Well from our understanding ...

Soft life is simply living and enjoying the finer things of life without any stress or discomfort 

It is Luxury Living. It is living a life of Ease and Abundance 

Who is a Soft Girl?

A Soft Girl is a girl that lives the soft life

She’s a Material Gworl who alway gets her way, she enjoys the finer things life has to offer 

But Social media has its own perception of the Soft life, It has managed to give us Visuals and it’s idea of what the soft life is...

According to social media the soft girl is a girl who takes trips, buys luxury items, has an amazing social life, looks fantastic, Goes out to eat and amazing restaurants, has her life together and takes great pictures 

And while that may be a completely exaggerated and unrealistic view of life

It is not a Far-Fetched picture of what the soft life looks like

How to live a Soft life

To live a soft life one has to...

  • Have an Abundance Mindset 

You must be willing to let go of the Scarcity mindset.

 Let go of the struggle culture, The idea of that before  anything good comes your way you have to suffer for it

Be open to Receiving.

Speak positive things in your life, 

Tell yourself that you’re deserving of all the good things of life. 

Stress less and let your life flow with Ease


  • Treat Yourself How You Want to be Treated 

If you want princess treatment, first you have to treat yourself like a princess 

Take yourself out on dates, Get yourself nice things, Give yourself Top tier experiences and Go to memorable  places 

Don’t wait on other people to give you the Experiences you desire

  • Invest in Yourself 

Invest in your looks, your health, your life, etc

The way we look tells a lot about a person. It is the first impression people have of us before we speak 

Below are some ways you can invest in Yourself;

Your body is your temple take care of it.

Your skin is the largest organ in your body look after it 

Beautiful skin can do a lot to your self confidence as 90% of your body is your skin. Your skin is the largest and most visible organ of your body and should be thoroughly and properly taken care of.

Use Skin Care products that are specific to your skin care needs and targets your problem areas instead of using Generic all in one skin formulations that do next to nothing for your skin.

For example if you have dry skin and a rough skin texture then products with glycolic acids, AHAs, etc are you best friends Am lactin, Alpha Glycolic Body Lotion, Paula's Choice Glycolic Lotion, The Urban Rx Body Treatment, etc are some great skin care products rich in beneficial acids that help smoothen out your skin texture.

Retinols are great for anti aging and keeping your skin Looking young and youthful.

Collagen helps your skin elasticity and keeps it firm.

Hyaluronic acid and ceramides are great for keeping your skin supple and moisturised. 

Kojic acid is great for lightening hyper pigmentation and discoloration.

And there a a lot more Ingredients and Products available, and we suggest you do your research and find what works best for your skin.


Exfoliation also helps to get rid of dead skin cells and can be done physically or chemically.

Physical exfoliation is done with the use of scrubs, exfoliating gloves and skin brushes. Scrubs like sugar scrubs can be made at home by mixing sugar, honey, lemon, tumeric and olive oil or any other carrier oil of your choice or you can simply buy store bought scrubs. 

Chemical exfoliation is done chemically with the use of beneficial acids which we talked about earlier.

Your Hair is your Crown Nurture It

Whether you wear wigs & weaves or your natural hair, taking care of your crown is extremely important. Good hair is the pinnacle of a woman's beauty.

Keeping your hair clean, washed, moisturized and hydrated is an essential. Make sure your hair looks neat and tidy before you step out of your house.

You can care for your hair in the following ways; Deep conditioning, oiling your scalp and your ends, Moisturizing, etc

Experiment with your hair; Try out different Hair Styles

Try out different looks and different hair styles, play around with different hair colors and cuts and see what works for you

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These are just some of the few ways you can invest in Yourself. There are a lot more ways to invest in Yourself and it’s up to you to find out what works best for you and your needs. 

Investing in Yourself is probably one of the best life decisions you can ever make.


We hope this Article was helpful and your enjoyed reading it

If you did leave us a comment down below. 

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